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Picking up people at a bar is a time-honored tradition. We talked to four of our favorite tenders of bar — from Rochelle’s in New York to Greco’s in Frisco, Colorado — about how to better approach the late-night post-drink pickup. Stop trying so hard.“When guys focus on having a great time with the people they came with to the bar or restaurant, girls tend to gravitate toward that great time. "I think the hardest thing is not to come across as too keen, so body language is important too,” says Billy Pirie, who tends bar at U. And don't give your number out on a napkin to every girl who walks in, just ask them for theirs! Pay attention to what she orders.“No matter what she's drinking, always buy her a shot of whiskey. If you pick something that's a tad odd for the place and she overhears you order, that might even be enough of a segue to get chatting.9. Always be friendly to the group, but engage with her the most to make sure she knows she is the target, not her friends.
More often than not, it’s also an exercise in failure. It reminds me of a craps table in Vegas; when the table is hot and exciting, that's where people are gathering,” says Johnny Welsh, who tends bar at Greco's Pastaria in Frisco, Colorado, and is author of Weedgalized in Colorado: True Tales From the High Country. But if she is drinking Red Bull, don't bother,” says Yorsz. “As long as you’re cool, she will break away from the bunch when the time is right,” says Yorsz.10. Be polite to the bartender and friendly to anyone with whom you interact.
"I think it's sweet when the guy acts like a gentleman," she says.
Breedlove has a favorite story that involves alcohol, a jilted date and flapjacks.
or good conversation." For the men, it's sloppiness — like messily devouring wings only minutes after meeting: "It's disgusting when you couldn't care less how you're coming off." And what of that rude practice of paying more attention to a screen than the date? Breedlove says some dates will call ahead so there's champagne waiting.
"I'm always amazed to see how often people check their phones, even though their attention should be on their dates," Marshall says. And Greco reports the rare suitor will still pull out a chair for his date.
This really upset me, so I tried not to care or bring up it up.
I find that inaccurate since I don’t feel that I get overly upset or loud with him.
Don't be crude."It sounds simple and unnecessary to say, but you would be shocked at how many guys don't realize this. Something you think isn't even crude, she could find repulsive," says JR Gudger, bartender at New York City's popular beer-soaked bro-country nirvana Brother Jimmy's and member of The Barnstorm.3. If you’re going to pick up a girl in a bar, always have cash ready.
"Bribes generally aren't good openers," says Steve Yorsz of Rochelle’s in New York City.2.
“If the bartender thinks you’re a cool enough person, he’ll happily act as the wingman,” says Vitaliy R., a bartender in Austin, Texas, who originally hails from New York City.5. Something as simple as a casual brush on the back while you're talking, as you're picking up your drink, or positioning your stool toward hers is enough to clue her in that you're interested. ’ you should have a good story to back it up," says Yorsz.
“That way if she wants to leave with you, you won't get held up waiting for the bartender to close your tab,” says Yorsz.4. Usually when girls see that a guy has a good rapport with the bartender, they’re more likely to relax.